Hey everybody–as most of you know, we were expecting our first son to be born any day now.  Everything had been absolutely fine during all of our doctor’s visits, check up’s, etc.

Last week, we felt like something might not quite be right, so we went in the night before  our scheduled weekly check up–just to be extra careful about everything.  We expected they’d check everything out and send us home; however, within a matter of minutes of arriving at the hospital they said that our baby was experiencing some distress, and that we need to go ahead and do a c-section as a precaution to make sure that they could take care of any problems, but that everything would probably be all right.

Unfortunately, it didn’t turn out that way–long story short, there were completely unexpected complications, and we lost our baby.

They kept us at the hospital for a week to make sure that Mel recovered–which she did.  I just wanted to get this post up to let everybody know what happened–and let you all know that we’ll be closing the office, for the most part, for the next couple of weeks.  I’ll try and get back with anything pertinent, and we’ll still be getting any orders that have come in out to everybody (Christmas cards, etc.)–but please be patient if we aren’t able to respond right away.

Thank you so much for everyone who has sent cards, flowers, thoughts, prayers, and everything else.  You’ve all been a big help, and we greatly appreciate it.

Much love,

Sean & Mel

229 Comments

  1. Marcia Truitt on December 1, 2008 at 7:18 pm

    We are praying for you both. So sorry to hear about your loss!

  2. Lori Barbely on December 1, 2008 at 7:20 pm

    So sorry to hear this! My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

  3. susan yee on December 1, 2008 at 7:23 pm

    oh, sean! i am soo sorry for your loss, it made me tear up to read. i can’t imagine how you’re feeling now. my love and thoughts to you both. xoxo

  4. Angela on December 1, 2008 at 7:26 pm

    I am so sorry :( I will keep your family in my prayers.

  5. Pammy on December 1, 2008 at 7:28 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss.

  6. Blair Van Bussel on December 1, 2008 at 7:32 pm

    I am a new follower, but my heart truly goes out to you and your wife . I cannot imagine how hard this must be. I am very very sorry for your loss.

  7. amelia Lyon on December 1, 2008 at 7:32 pm

    I know we are strangers, but we just read about your sad news and wanted you to know that you and Mel are in our thoughts and prayers. I can’t imagine how hard this may be for you both. We wish you a peaceful healing heart during this time.

  8. Chris on December 1, 2008 at 7:37 pm

    I will definitely be praying for you both. I hope you feel Christ’s undying love around you…

  9. Kate Black on December 1, 2008 at 7:46 pm

    I lurk on your blog periodically to enjoy your beautiful photographs.

    So sorry to read this news. I’m wishing strength & peace to you both.

  10. Fuller Edge Photography on December 1, 2008 at 7:46 pm

    Chad and I are both so sorry to hear about what happened. We’re thinking about you guys!

  11. K. Crafton on December 1, 2008 at 7:54 pm

    I wish there was something that I could say or do to make all of your pain go away….and just know that I adore you two dearly. Much love and hugs to you guys.

  12. Lauren on December 1, 2008 at 7:56 pm

    We’re so very very sorry to hear about this. I’m sending you all the love and strength I possibly can. Even though we’re a country away, and strangers, don’t ever hesitate to let us know if there’s anything we could possibly do to help.

  13. jeffrey Woods on December 1, 2008 at 8:06 pm

    So sorry hear what has happen. We will keep you guys in our prayers.

  14. daryl brewton on December 1, 2008 at 8:08 pm

    I am so sorry for you both. Our prayers are with you both during this time.

  15. Janet on December 1, 2008 at 8:09 pm

    I get your blog posts and have been lurking for a while. Just read your sad sad news about your little baby. I am so sorry. This is a devastating thing to happen. We are strangers, but we lost our first little boy as well. We are thinking of you.

  16. jess on December 1, 2008 at 8:11 pm

    i am so, so sorry for your loss :( you are both in my thoughts!

  17. Lara on December 1, 2008 at 8:14 pm

    Oh my goodness, I am so sorry to hear this. Much love to you both during this difficult time. I am praying for you.

  18. Joelle on December 1, 2008 at 8:14 pm

    I’m de-lurking to say that I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You both will be in my prayers.

  19. Mark Eric on December 1, 2008 at 8:19 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear about this. Our prayers are with you. Please let us know if we can help ease your workload in any way, I’m sure the photographers of MP would help without question.

  20. kelli on December 1, 2008 at 8:20 pm

    i’m so sorry for your loss. i can’t even fathom the kind of grief you’re dealing with, but you’ll all be in my prayers.

  21. Jen Bebb on December 1, 2008 at 8:32 pm

    You guys have been in my thoughts since you first shared this with us. We’re keeping you close to our hearts and our boys want you to know they’re thinking of you too. Anything you need – anything at all – we are here.

  22. Kristin Carolan on December 1, 2008 at 8:36 pm

    I am so incredibly sorry to hear of your loss. You both are in my prayers…

  23. Roxanne Benton on December 1, 2008 at 8:39 pm

    Oh my goodness – my heart goes out to you two. You and Mel are most certainly in our prayers. Lots of love, Roxanne and CB

  24. Allana Taranto on December 1, 2008 at 8:41 pm

    I’ve been keeping up with your work, personal and professional, with an rss feed on your blog.

    My heart is in my throat. I hope and trust that your love and faith will keep you both strong.

    much love to you,
    A

  25. cristen + w. scott chester on December 1, 2008 at 8:47 pm

    we are literally moved to tears as we read about your devastating loss. we wish you both peace and strength as you heal and we will be thinking of you + your families.

  26. Jessica on December 1, 2008 at 8:55 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. I can’t even imagine what you must be going through. You two will be in my thoughts and prayers.

  27. Katie Torres on December 1, 2008 at 9:00 pm

    Our hearts have been breaking since we heard the news. We are so terribly sorry and have been praying for you both.

    Love, Katie

  28. erika verginelli on December 1, 2008 at 9:07 pm

    oh my, i have no words…and i’m sure there are no words to describe your pain. i’ll keep you in my prayers…so sorry to hear such a sad story ;-(

  29. brandy j on December 1, 2008 at 9:18 pm

    You guys are in our hearts! We have been thinking about you ever since we heard the news. We are comforted to know that you have each other in a time like this. If there is anything we can do for you please do not hesitate to ask.

    Love you both very much!

    brandy j and sticky

  30. Cristina on December 1, 2008 at 9:26 pm

    I will be praying for you and your families. I am so sorry.

  31. yazy on December 1, 2008 at 9:26 pm

    you are in my prayers. If there is anything you need, let me know.

  32. Scarlett Lillian on December 1, 2008 at 9:34 pm

    Oh my gosh, I can’t begin to imagine the hurt and confusion and frustration you must be experiencing as this situation tests your faith. I know it’s cliche to say the Lord has a purpose even in the bad times and in our losses, but it is the truth and I hope you are able to find comfort in His peace during this time for strength to get through it. I will be praying for you and your wife Sean!

  33. K.G. Photography on December 1, 2008 at 9:34 pm

    Sean and Mel, I am so sorry to hear this. I just lost my grandfather on November 18th. I will be praying that God will comfort you both greatly during difficult time.

  34. holly on December 1, 2008 at 9:38 pm

    We are so very sorry to hear about your loss. We will all be praying for you both.

  35. Leslie Gilbert on December 1, 2008 at 9:41 pm

    I am so sorry. You are both in my prayers.

  36. kristen on December 1, 2008 at 9:54 pm

    love and hugs (and tears, good lord…) for you both.

  37. debbie on December 1, 2008 at 10:11 pm

    How devastating for you both. I have kept up with your blog and am so sorry to hear about your loss. We can’t even begin to imagine what you are going through. Our hearts are broken for you. Tell Mel that we will keep you both in our thoughts and prayers.

  38. diana on December 1, 2008 at 10:33 pm

    i can’t even see what i’m writing through the tears. i wish you both strength in this sadness. many prayers.

  39. Chris & Leigh on December 1, 2008 at 10:46 pm

    You are in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything we can do for you two, just let us know!

  40. Bliss Photography (Australia) on December 1, 2008 at 10:53 pm

    We’re so sad to hear of your tragic loss. Our hearts go out to you at this sad, sad time. We do hope that you are able to cope with the support of your family and friends over the next weeks and months.

  41. Terrica on December 1, 2008 at 10:58 pm

    I am so very sorry. You and your wife are in my prayers.

  42. [ b ] on December 1, 2008 at 10:58 pm

    oh man, i don’t even know what to say. my thoughts and prayers are with you guys. i’m done for the year if you need any help.

  43. Cicely Rocha.Miller, Life Design Event Planning on December 1, 2008 at 11:01 pm

    I don’t know you but I read your blog post. I am so so sorry about your loss and I promise to pray a special prayer for you little one to be safe in Gods hands and for strength for you and your wife.

  44. Becka Knight (Studio222 Photography) on December 1, 2008 at 11:04 pm

    Our hearts are breaking for you and our prayers are most definitely with you and Mel.

  45. lisa b on December 1, 2008 at 11:04 pm

    my thoughts are with you from virginia. i’ll be praying for you both so very much.

  46. Melissa Tirado on December 1, 2008 at 11:06 pm

    Sean and Mel, we were just so crushed when we heard the news. Please know that we’re sending you all of our love…

  47. John Edgar on December 1, 2008 at 11:12 pm

    I’m very sorry to hear this. I’ll keep you both in my thoughts. Sending love.

  48. Chris Mann on December 1, 2008 at 11:17 pm

    So sorry to hear your sad news – my deepest condolences, and sending supportive thoughts to you both.

  49. Jennifer {Bridal Inquirer} on December 1, 2008 at 11:23 pm

    I do not know you, but my heart breaks for you both. I wish there was something I could do to lessen your pain. You are in our thoughts.

  50. dawn winton on December 1, 2008 at 11:23 pm

    There are no words, just know I am so sorry. Will be thinking of you in the days to come. :(

  51. Angie Galyean on December 1, 2008 at 11:23 pm

    Noah and I will be sending up many prayers for you that God will give you His comfort and strength during this tragic time. All our love…

  52. Ryel j on December 1, 2008 at 11:27 pm

    I’m so sorry for you and your families loss. We’ll be praying for you and Mel during this time.

  53. chris. on December 1, 2008 at 11:28 pm

    we love you guys.

  54. Lindsey on December 1, 2008 at 11:28 pm

    Sean and Mel:

    I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

  55. jen vansuydam on December 1, 2008 at 11:29 pm

    Oh, you guys… I am so, so sorry. I can’t even imagine what you must be going through. Clearly, you are in the loving thoughts of many, many people, so I hope that helps to bring you some comfort.

  56. jen harris on December 1, 2008 at 11:31 pm

    I don’t have words to express my sorrow for you guys. II pray that you would find strength through this.

  57. Lanne on December 1, 2008 at 11:31 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you both.

  58. brandie on December 1, 2008 at 11:38 pm

    I’m in absolute shock. I just can’t believe this. May God be with you and give you understanding and peace.

    Here’s a blog of a couple who lost their first two babies and are now pregnant with their third and things may be different this for them this time.
    http://blakeanddaniellemalone.blogspot.com

  59. Erin Browne on December 1, 2008 at 11:55 pm

    I’m so sorry that this happened to you both. You are in our thoughts.

  60. Matt Browne on December 1, 2008 at 11:57 pm

    oh no! I’m at a total loss for words. My heart goes out to you both…

  61. Tana H on December 2, 2008 at 12:22 am

    Oh, guys, I have absolutely no words. Saying I am so sorry to hear of your loss seems so insignificant. You are both in my prayers and thoughts.

  62. alison bynum on December 2, 2008 at 12:28 am

    Sean & Mel – my prayers are with you. i am so sorry.

  63. Chris+Lynn on December 2, 2008 at 12:29 am

    You are in our prayers. So sorry for your loss.

  64. Melissa McClure on December 2, 2008 at 12:38 am

    my heart goes out to you two. You are in my thoughts.

  65. Matt Vickers on December 2, 2008 at 12:43 am

    Guys Im so sorry. Ill keep you both in my thoughts.

  66. david & kimi b ~ ohana photographers on December 2, 2008 at 12:45 am

    oh mel and sean, we were thinking of you both all the way home today praying it wasn’t something serious when we were finally able to check in. as we read on our hearts sank, cried and are praying for you both to have the strength to get through such a heartbreaking time. we love you and will be thinking of you both.

  67. Melody Hood on December 2, 2008 at 1:02 am

    Telling you how sorry I am couldn’t even begin to cover how I feel for you guys right now. You’re both amazing, wonderful people and I’ve loved you both to death since the moment I met you. You guys are life, love, and sunshine – bad things aren’t supposed to happen to amazing people like you. If you need anything, and I mean anything – someone to come up and fill orders, return phone calls, send emails – anything at all – just say the word and I’m there to help in any way I possibly can. You guys are in my thoughts, my prayers, my tears – *hugs* to you both. I wish I could take away your pain.

  68. Tara K. on December 2, 2008 at 1:06 am

    My heart is with you two right now. Take care of each other. I’m so sorry. If there is anything I can do . . . just ask.

  69. jaclyn kaiser on December 2, 2008 at 1:21 am

    i am so sorry for your loss. you are definitely in our thoughts and prayers.

  70. sarah & Chris Rhoads on December 2, 2008 at 1:43 am

    although we don’t know you Chris and I are praying for you during this time. I can’t imagine what you must be going through. Our thoughts are with you.

  71. Sarah Tolson on December 2, 2008 at 1:47 am

    My heart is breaking for you guys.. You are in my prayers. :(

  72. matt + angie sloan on December 2, 2008 at 1:48 am

    you are in our thoughts and prayers! all the best!

  73. MIND|Castle Studios on December 2, 2008 at 3:19 am

    I am so sad to hear this! You guys are in my thoughts!

    -danielle

  74. wrecklessgirl on December 2, 2008 at 4:15 am

    my heart breaks for your family–i am so, so sad to hear this news. i pray many, many blessings for you this new year. you are in my prayers and thoughts.

  75. Marci Ralph on December 2, 2008 at 5:52 am

    I am so sorry to hear of this tragedy. My heart breaks for you both as you pick up the pieces and move on, I cant imagine being so close and now so far. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

  76. Gill Taylor on December 2, 2008 at 6:05 am

    There are no words. I am so sorry for your loss.

    Gill Taylor

  77. jrbryant on December 2, 2008 at 8:04 am

    I’ve not posted before, but visit your site on a daily basis. I know how excited you two were about your baby. I am so sorry for your loss and grieve for you. My family and I will keep you in our thoughts and especially in our prayers.

  78. Critsey on December 2, 2008 at 8:11 am

    Mel and Sean, my heart is aching for you. I am still in shock as I just found out minutes ago.
    I am here for you – please call if you need anything at all.
    Love, Critsey

  79. jessica @ budgetsavvybride on December 2, 2008 at 8:41 am

    I am so sorry to read of your loss. I don’t know you guys but my heart truly aches for you right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this trying time. :(

  80. Dawn McKinstry on December 2, 2008 at 9:37 am

    I can’t imagine what you are going through right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

  81. amy clark on December 2, 2008 at 9:39 am

    We have never met, but from your work and the praise and kind words from those that I know who have, you both are amazing individuals. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

  82. Rebekah at EAD Living on December 2, 2008 at 9:52 am

    I’m so sorry! Praying for peace in this very difficult time.

  83. Jesus Tirso on December 2, 2008 at 9:57 am

    So sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you.

  84. Nicole Polk on December 2, 2008 at 10:02 am

    Oh, I’m so sorry to hear this news. I can’t imagine the loss you are feeling. My thoughts are with you guys.

  85. Jamie Weiss on December 2, 2008 at 10:03 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this diffuclt time. I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I hope that you can find peace and strength through God and through each other.

  86. Marlena Wright on December 2, 2008 at 10:09 am

    tim and i love you guys so much. we are praying for you constantly.

  87. Barb Barry on December 2, 2008 at 10:31 am

    I am very sorry to hear about your loss. It is extremely difficult to maintain a business when you and your family are suffering so much. Give yourself time and space to heal. Your clients will understand and forgive you. We have a small studio in Pittsburgh, if there is anything that we can do to help, don’t hesitate. We can print holiday cards for you, whatever you might need.
    Our thoughts are with you. Barb & Steve Barry

  88. Stephen on December 2, 2008 at 10:40 am

    I’m very sorry to hear about your loss. I wish there were words that could help take away the pain. Just know that you’ve touched many people around the world through your work who are eager to give back and help in any way we can.

  89. Andria Fontenot on December 2, 2008 at 10:41 am

    I’m praying for you guys.

  90. Ariana on December 2, 2008 at 11:05 am

    I can’t begin to imagine what you are going through right now, but please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. If there is anything at all that we can do, don’t hesitate to let us know. All our love goes out to you right now.

  91. Seshu on December 2, 2008 at 11:25 am

    Hey Sean,

    My heart goes out to you and your wife. I am so sorry for your loss.

  92. Henry on December 2, 2008 at 11:37 am

    My thoughts are with you.

  93. Anne on December 2, 2008 at 11:37 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss and so grateful that Mel is healthy and recovered without complication. Thank you so much for being so open with the world about your situation, it’s definitely not easy in a time like this. I’m sending you big huge hugs and lots of love as you work through this.

  94. Charlotte Geary on December 2, 2008 at 12:10 pm

    I am so tremendously sorry and sad. My heart goes out to you.

  95. Evin Krehbiel on December 2, 2008 at 12:13 pm

    my heart aches for you all. I am covering you with prayers and know we are here if you need ANYTHING.
    Love you both

  96. Genevieve Nisly on December 2, 2008 at 12:22 pm

    The words I want to say just fall short. We are praying for you both and grieving with you. Tears are just streaming down my cheeks thinking of our loss. If we can be of any help, let us know.

  97. Stevie on December 2, 2008 at 12:30 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to your family. I hope this organization can help a little with your grieving and healing: http://nationalshareoffice.com

  98. Courtney D. on December 2, 2008 at 12:50 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God grant you the strength you two need and much more. So sorry for your loss.

  99. Ana Gabriela on December 2, 2008 at 1:03 pm

    Send you a big hug. God bless.

  100. Amy Gaerthofner on December 2, 2008 at 1:23 pm

    You have a special little angel in heaven… May you find strength and peace knowing God will carry you through these tough days ahead.

  101. Chung Nguyen on December 2, 2008 at 1:30 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear this. Stay strong.

  102. Blaize on December 2, 2008 at 2:15 pm

    I too ‘lurk’ on your blog drawing inspiration from your art and vision. i feel like i know you guys from all the images you have shared with us and the accompanying text. My heart goes out to you both at this time.

  103. Susan P on December 2, 2008 at 2:17 pm

    my most heartfelt condolences go out to both of you and your families at this time! You are all in my prayers, and I pray God’s strength and compassion will see you through these difficult times and give you hope.

  104. Audrey & Ben Phillips on December 2, 2008 at 2:47 pm

    we are so saddened to hear the news of your loss, and want you to know that you are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. may you find peace in this extremely difficult time.

  105. Susan on December 2, 2008 at 2:58 pm

    Mel & Sean, I’m just a stranger who comes here to be inspired by your beautiful photographs. The way that you capture the beauty in the people & places around you is just breathtaking. I’m so sorry for what happened, I cannot even begin to imagine your pain- and I offer what I can- a simple prayer:
    The Lord bless you and keep you
    The Lord lift His countenance upon you,
    And give you peace,
    and give you peace,
    and give you p e a c e.

  106. Savannah Kenney on December 2, 2008 at 3:02 pm

    I sat and cried as I read the news. I’ve only met you once (altf memphis) but I have followed your work and you both are a huge inspiration to my husband and I as we strive to start our studio. We are praying for you. May the Lord grant you peace.

  107. Whitney May on December 2, 2008 at 3:06 pm

    I am so terribly sorry. Vaughn and I will both be praying for you.

  108. Meegan on December 2, 2008 at 3:31 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss! The two of you and your precious angel are in my prayers.

  109. Beth Daane on December 2, 2008 at 4:08 pm

    God Bless you all during such a hard and absolutely horrific time in your lives.

  110. Emily Beaty on December 2, 2008 at 4:15 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear this! I will be praying that God will comfort you & fill you with a deep peace. Hang in there.

  111. ABC Dragoo on December 2, 2008 at 5:10 pm

    May our healing thoughts embrace you during this time. I can’t imagine anything more difficult than what you’re going through right now. Hopefully the the fact that you’ve got support from all around the globe will give you some peace.

  112. Amy Martin on December 2, 2008 at 5:15 pm

    Praying for peace and healing for you both during this time. Lots of love.

  113. amy on December 2, 2008 at 5:24 pm

    there just aren’t words…sending lots of prayers, love, and hope from all of us.

  114. Yvette Galvan on December 2, 2008 at 5:39 pm

    I will keep you two in my prayers. Even though we don’t know each other, we can relate to you both, we too being a husband and wife team and being pregnant around the same time. I am still having a difficult pregnancy and I am so scared since we came very close to losing our first son at birth. I can’t imagine how it would have felt if he wouldn’t have survived. I hope that you heal soon and will have another chance to try again.

  115. Kyle Carter on December 2, 2008 at 5:40 pm

    Jacque and I were so sorry to hear about your loss. You’re in our thoughts and prayers.

  116. Phyllis Helton on December 2, 2008 at 6:48 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear this! I will pray for you.

  117. Kevin Wimpy on December 2, 2008 at 8:36 pm

    No words can express our sadness for you guys. Hold each other, tight! If you need anything, were near by, let us know. Prayers daily. K-

  118. Zach & Jody Gray on December 2, 2008 at 9:58 pm

    We have prayed and are praying for you. May the Lord give you strength and peace. We cannot begin to express our sorrow for your loss.

  119. Deidre Holland on December 2, 2008 at 10:07 pm

    Oh Sean and Melanie! My heart is breaking for you! I know that your emotions are running wild, but I know that through all of this that the Lord has a plan. Although you may not be able to see it right now, He is there to comfort the both of you. I LOVIE YOU BOTH AND YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS!!!

  120. Laura Echols on December 2, 2008 at 10:37 pm

    Mel and Sean,
    My family’s thoughts and prayers are with you both as well as your families during this extremely difficult time. We are continuing to pray for Mel’s physical healing as well as both of your emotional healing. Our prayer is that God will grant you strength and His peace as you heal. You will be in our daily thoughts and prayers. We love you both!

  121. cat and adi on December 2, 2008 at 10:45 pm

    We are so sorry for your unbelievable loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.

  122. Mandy on December 2, 2008 at 11:26 pm

    I’m so very sorry….those words just don’t seem enough….wishing strength and healing to you both.

  123. Asther on December 3, 2008 at 1:02 am

    Your family is in my prayers tonight. *HUGS*

  124. jerusha on December 3, 2008 at 2:01 am

    I just heard from Jesse. I’m so sorry, we love you.

  125. Bunmi on December 3, 2008 at 6:24 am

    sorry about ur loss
    i pray for God’s strength for u at this time

  126. ricki ford on December 3, 2008 at 9:30 am

    I am so sorry to hear this. You 2 are in our paryers.

  127. Amanda Deskins on December 3, 2008 at 9:50 am

    You don’t really know me, but I wanted you to know that I will be praying for you and your family. The Lord and his promises are the only measures of healing at this time. We will all see our lost loved ones in heaven again someday. Your son will not be forgotten in your hearts or in heaven. Take Care and God Bless.

  128. Jackie Beale on December 3, 2008 at 10:11 am

    Oh my God, I really don’t know what else to say but just that you will be in my prayers for your emotional recovery. God has much in store for us in the future, not in this sad, imperfect world, but to restore the paradise that was once lost in the beginning and to see our loved ones again. God cannot lie. Revelation 21:3 and 4 is of great comfort. Much love to you guys from Daytona Beach Florida :)

  129. Lenna Waters on December 3, 2008 at 11:51 am

    I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. Your family is in my prayers in this difficult time.

  130. Ryan Cohen on December 3, 2008 at 12:27 pm

    Oh my God, I’m so sorry about this. This reaches my heart in a way a little different – my wife and I are also expecting our first daughter any day now. So far everything is good, but I have been following your blog for some time now and was excited when I learned you were also expecting. I am so sorry. You are in our prayers!

  131. Jennifer on December 3, 2008 at 12:41 pm

    oh I am so very sorry, your family is in my prayers, as I am at loss for any other words right now. My heart breaks for you two.

  132. Caroline Ghetes on December 3, 2008 at 1:03 pm

    Oh dear God I am praying for your family. I cannot imagine what you must be experiencing and I can only pray that God will comfort you in this trying time and that you will see your little baby in Heaven one day.

  133. Rachel Absher on December 3, 2008 at 1:24 pm

    Sean and Mel. I am so sorry to hear about your loss! I have been following your blog for quite some time. I will be praying for you and your family.

  134. shain on December 3, 2008 at 1:50 pm

    my heart and prayers are out to you two.

  135. Dave & Kyla Lee on December 3, 2008 at 2:03 pm

    You both are in our prayers. We are so sorry for your loss. With love from family in Delta, CO

  136. Martin O'Connor on December 3, 2008 at 2:58 pm

    Hi Guys,

    I just received the notice and I was shocked and saddened to hear what happened to you with the loss of your baby. I can’t begin to imaging how many feelings are going on for you at this moment but please understand that you will both be in my thougths for some time. I know we don’t cross paths very often but when it comes to emergencies such as this, it doesn’t really matter. I’ve just come off of one myself so on some level, I do understand. Let me know if there is anything, no matter how small, I can do to be of help.

    Sincerely,

    Martin O’Connor

  137. Cory Callahan on December 3, 2008 at 4:13 pm

    My family and I are praying for you both.

  138. Karen Lisa on December 3, 2008 at 4:32 pm

    I know we don’t know each other well, but I just wanted you both to know how much I have been thinking about you in the past few days. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss… sending wishes of healing and strength your way…

  139. Chuck and Kristina Arlund on December 3, 2008 at 4:49 pm

    Sean and Mel…We are so sorry for your loss. You both are in our prayers. We were speechless and we know you will recover. Take care of yourselves and please let us know how we can help you both out.

  140. Michael Howard on December 3, 2008 at 6:05 pm

    I am praying for you both! This absolutely breaks my heart! I wish I had words to comfort you, but at times like this there isn’t much to say. Know that I’m thinking of you both!!!

  141. Christine French on December 3, 2008 at 6:21 pm

    My heart has been heavy for the last week, of course I cannot know your pain but please know that I am praying for your renewal and strength. This is my prayer for y’all tonight ” Lord, we do not know your ways nor can we begin to comprehend your majesty, for all that we struggle to understand, please give Sean and Mel peace that passes our understanding. When they are weak let them lean on you and show them the path through this pain.”
    Y’all are both in my prayers daily

  142. Molly Brown-Boulay on December 3, 2008 at 9:23 pm

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am a fellow Franklin photographer and friends with Mary Grindstaff and Valerie Head. My heart is breaking for you. You will be in my prayers.

  143. lisa Marie Bearden on December 3, 2008 at 10:30 pm

    Words escape me, but my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  144. our labor of love on December 3, 2008 at 10:46 pm

    i am so sorry for you all. this brought tears to our eyes. we are nearby so if we can do anything let me know.

  145. Linhbergh on December 3, 2008 at 10:49 pm

    I am absolutely devastated on reading this news. My heart and my condolences goes out to both you and your wife.

  146. susan stripling on December 3, 2008 at 11:37 pm

    there are no words …. thinking of you both.

  147. Chris + Tammie Billey on December 4, 2008 at 12:31 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

  148. Danielle Adams on December 4, 2008 at 12:39 am

    My husband Jason and I are praying for you both and will continue to. If you need some practical help just send me an email. I’d be glad to help with getting stuff out the door if you need it.
    (Danielle from PUG)

  149. jessica on December 4, 2008 at 9:25 am

    Oh Mel and Sean, I had no clue! My thoughts and prayers are with you both at this time!

  150. christy cleghorn on December 4, 2008 at 11:05 am

    sean and mel. there just aren’t words. i love you both and am praying that God can bring some sort of comfort to you both in this time. i’m so sorry.

  151. christy cleghorn on December 4, 2008 at 11:05 am

    sean and mel. there just aren’t words. i love you both and am praying that God can bring some sort of comfort to you both in this time. i’m so sorry.

  152. Lisa Lawrence on December 4, 2008 at 11:45 am

    there are no words….you both are in my prayers.

  153. brooke schwab on December 4, 2008 at 11:49 am

    i am so sad to hear this. it is heart breaking. please know that you are loved! i will be praying for your loss at this time. if there is anything any of us can do, let me know!

  154. aunt carol on December 4, 2008 at 11:51 am

    Hi guys! I know the white water is tough to get thru…sometimes all you can do is hang on and stay w/ the ship…the peace will come w/ time and acceptance and you will find a new strength that you didn’t know you had.

    Can’t wait for your visit to Colorado. Until then we are embracing you from a distance. God Bless.

  155. Andrea Kelly on December 4, 2008 at 2:56 pm

    My heart just aches for you. Many thoughts and prayers go out as you experience this horrific loss.

  156. meggie velasco on December 4, 2008 at 3:50 pm

    My heart hurts for you. I wish there was something I could say to make it better. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

  157. Staci Mikelle on December 4, 2008 at 7:58 pm

    aww…my heart is sad. Best wishes for you two

  158. Photography By Shay on December 4, 2008 at 8:53 pm

    This might be my first comment here, but I just wanted to extend my sympathy to you two. No words will ever make things ok, but I want to still tell you how deeply sorry I am.

  159. jane cato photography on December 4, 2008 at 10:28 pm

    MacGyver & Mel (my heroes), thinking of you.

  160. Cathy Crawley on December 5, 2008 at 12:35 am

    Oh no, I’m so sorry to hear that, my heart goes out to you both :(

  161. Holly & Will on December 5, 2008 at 11:31 am

    I’m so sorry to hear that. Our Prayers are with you.

  162. Ronnie and Jessica on December 5, 2008 at 1:38 pm

    Sean and Mel, we are so sad to hear this news. We are thinking of you.

  163. Marci on December 5, 2008 at 4:48 pm

    I am so very sorry for your loss.

  164. Rhonda on December 5, 2008 at 6:55 pm

    I am

  165. Rhonda on December 5, 2008 at 6:57 pm

    You guys will certainly be in my prayers. I pray for your strength and understanding to get through this matter.

    My deepest condolensces,
    Rhonda

  166. Jacque on December 5, 2008 at 8:37 pm

    Sean and Mel, Kyle and I are SO sorry to hear about your incredible loss. Please know that you both are in our thoughts and prayers. If we can do anything for you, please let us know.

  167. ben & laura on December 6, 2008 at 12:02 pm

    our prayers are with you both … please let us know if we can be of any help while you are getting through this extremely difficult time. God is in control.

  168. LC on December 6, 2008 at 5:34 pm

    You guys – I’m so, so sorry for your loss. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.

  169. Rachel Kuchar on December 6, 2008 at 10:27 pm

    Our prayers are with you!

  170. Tanya Saenz on December 6, 2008 at 11:53 pm

    my thoughts and prayers are with you two.

  171. Sarah B. on December 7, 2008 at 8:49 am

    Sean and Mel, I am so sorry for your loss. I read your blog through a friend’s blog, and I know what a strong family you have. I know what you are going through, and my prayers are with you and your family and friends.

  172. Lauren Clark on December 7, 2008 at 10:45 am

    Oh MY!! My heart aches for you two right now. I’m so sorry.

  173. Arnaud Thia-Nam on December 7, 2008 at 11:53 am

    I’ll be praying for you in the next weeks. I’m so sorry for both of you.

  174. Walter van Dusen on December 7, 2008 at 7:17 pm

    Sorry for your loss..

  175. Michelle (Australia) on December 8, 2008 at 6:55 am

    Words cannot express… thoughts and hugs never enough… all our best wishes in this difficult time!

  176. Heather MacEachern on December 8, 2008 at 10:44 am

    I don’t know you, but am an avid reader of your blog and couldn’t read this and not leave a comment…. my heart breaks for you and your family, I am so sorry for your loss.

  177. Tracey Buyce Photography on December 8, 2008 at 11:11 am

    I am so very sorry for your loss. You are both in my thoughts and in my prayers.

  178. Leslie on December 8, 2008 at 11:59 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. your wife and your family are in my prayers

  179. Lindsey Kennedy on December 9, 2008 at 11:01 am

    I am very sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you guys.

  180. brooke and eric lagstein on December 9, 2008 at 1:53 pm

    We’re sorry to hear of your loss and want you to know we are praying for your family. Your friends. Brooke and Eric

  181. Mei on December 9, 2008 at 2:04 pm

    I’m so sorry for both of you, all my thoughts are with you

  182. xander on December 9, 2008 at 6:33 pm

    our thoughts and prayers are with you. nothing can be said to make it better, but it looks like you have plenty of loved ones to lean on during this time. all the best.

  183. Jamie Burnett on December 9, 2008 at 7:42 pm

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am so sad reading you post, my heart goes out to your family. God Bless.

  184. Kristen Nelson on December 10, 2008 at 9:56 am

    Sean and Melanie — so sorry to hear about this heartbreaking news. If there is a bright side…it’s that Melanie is okay. We wish you both the best. You’re in our thoughts. — James and Kristen

  185. Cliff on December 10, 2008 at 10:56 am

    I am so sorry to hear of this. I don’t know what to say. If Barbara and I can do anything for you, just tell me.

  186. Abbie on December 10, 2008 at 11:46 am

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss! I truly believe that everything happens for a reason, so hopefully you two can stick together and get through this tough time. Know that there are many people out there thinking of you both!

  187. K. Crafton on December 10, 2008 at 2:52 pm

    Just wanted to let you two know that I’m thinking of you today. Many prayers for you.

  188. mike caston on December 10, 2008 at 4:08 pm

    guys.
    we will pray. you are loved more than you know.

    who has the McLellans mailing address? please send to me at michael.caston@gmail.com

    mike caston

  189. Lindsay Gaskins on December 10, 2008 at 9:42 pm

    Oh, I am soooo sorry! This must be so hard for ya’ll. We will keep you guys in our prayers.

  190. michelle pearson on December 10, 2008 at 10:35 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you guys…

  191. Sarah Smith on December 11, 2008 at 12:43 am

    i am so sorry to hear of your loss, i can not imagine what the two of you are going through. My sincerest sympathy to you both.

  192. Eddie Bojorquez (Studio 512) on December 11, 2008 at 3:57 am

    Clearly, there’s nothing I can say that hasn’t already been said or that will really ease your pain. But my prayers for God will and comfort to be revealed to you.
    -E

  193. anahi navarro on December 11, 2008 at 2:39 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers. love, anahi

  194. Jennifer on December 11, 2008 at 10:11 pm

    I visit your blog periodically for the beautiful photos. I am so terribly sorry to learn of the death of your son. I will be thinking of you.

  195. mary crow on December 11, 2008 at 11:34 pm

    I think about you guys everyday.
    Love you.

  196. Katie Stromei on December 12, 2008 at 4:32 pm

    So very sorry to hear this….your family is in my prayers

  197. Danielle on December 12, 2008 at 6:08 pm

    Bless your hearts…I can’t even begin to imagine what you are going through. You and your wife are in my prayers for strength.

  198. Cheri Pica on December 12, 2008 at 10:50 pm

    My heart is breaking for you. You are in my thoughts.

  199. Kimberly on December 13, 2008 at 10:06 am

    have never met you, but I follow your blog all the time. I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray for peace and healing for you and your family.

  200. kimberly bee on December 13, 2008 at 1:12 pm

    i’m so sorry for your family’s heartbreak and loss…lots more prayers, hugs, and tears from arizona. love, the bees.

  201. erin beth on December 14, 2008 at 1:31 pm

    Not sure you have heard about this but I am a member and photograph for “now I lay me down to sleep”…I wish I would of seen this blog post sooner..I’m so sorry for your loss. Now I lay me down to sleep (nilmdts.org) is bereavement photography. My prayers and thoughts are with you both.

  202. jason armond on December 14, 2008 at 6:49 pm

    Sending prayers your way.

  203. Cindy Gordon on December 15, 2008 at 3:53 am

    Oh my gosh, I am so so sorry to read your news. Please know that you and your wife will be in my prayers.

  204. Natalie on December 15, 2008 at 12:47 pm

    I don’t know you either but have seen you at bridal shows and I follow your blog. I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers.

  205. Lisa Love on December 15, 2008 at 4:47 pm

    I’m so sorry – we’re sending heartfelt prayers your way.

  206. Rosie Parsons on December 16, 2008 at 8:59 am

    :( I’m so so sorry to hear this terrible news. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this really sad time. xxx

  207. JR on December 16, 2008 at 10:00 am

    My heart goes out to you and your wife. I am so sorry.

  208. Brooke and Eric Lagstein on December 16, 2008 at 11:57 am

    We are thinking of you every day. Sincerely, Brooke and Eric

  209. craig on December 16, 2008 at 2:54 pm

    very very sorry to hear of your tragic loss. I hope there is some healing coming soon. Thoughts are with you and your family.

  210. Carl Reid on December 16, 2008 at 10:50 pm

    I’m sorry to hear your loss. As someone who lost a child as well I can only say to stay strong. And I say a prayer.

  211. Jesse on December 18, 2008 at 2:45 pm

    Oh man…I just found out about it now and can´t tell you how sorry I am for your loss!!!
    My thoughts are with you during this sad and difficult time *sends hugs*

  212. kathryn on December 20, 2008 at 12:12 am

    I am deeply sorry for your terrible loss. my thoughts and prayers are with you both.

  213. Airika Pope on December 20, 2008 at 1:50 am

    I just wanted to let you know that I too am praying for you and Mel.

  214. Mel Watson on December 20, 2008 at 3:35 am

    Still loving you guys… and keeping you in our prayers continuously. Can’t wait to give you both real hugs soon!

  215. Pamela Telgenhoff on December 20, 2008 at 8:50 am

    Came on to just tell you how much I love your work and see that you have had a terrible loss. I am so sorry and will pray for both of you. You are such beautiful people and I know your love will see you through.

  216. Rich and Heather Smith on December 20, 2008 at 3:37 pm

    Sean, I just found out on OSP. I had no idea. I am so sorry about your great loss. Please know that we are praying for you and Mel during this hard time. If you ever need to talk, please don’t hesitate to call.

  217. Audrey Snow on December 21, 2008 at 3:27 am

    I am another stranger who happened on your blog to see 2 things; your work is stunning and you are grieving. It is probably not even appropriate for me to comment on this post as it is so personal, but I feel compelled to write you that I will be thinking of you and wishing you peace. Perhaps some tiny bit of comfort can be found in the number of visitors you’ve touched.

  218. sean on December 23, 2008 at 3:08 am

    comments

  219. Nina on December 23, 2008 at 5:44 am

    I’m also a stranger, and appropriate or not, I send you healing thoughts and know there is always hope. always.

  220. Emma on December 23, 2008 at 6:24 am

    So sorry to hear about your loss! My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

  221. Ami @ Elizabeth Anne Designs on December 23, 2008 at 11:38 am

    i’m so very sorry for your loss.

  222. Michael on December 23, 2008 at 12:16 pm

    Sean and Mel – I just saw this and my heart goes out to you. I am so sorry and hope that you will find comfort during the weeks and months to come.

  223. Mary on December 23, 2008 at 2:59 pm

    There will be a candle lit for your lost child in church tomorrow.
    Our thoughts and prayers go out to you two in these difficult times.

  224. Ali on December 28, 2008 at 2:45 pm

    I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss, Sean and Mel. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  225. Jennifer Skog on December 30, 2008 at 7:08 pm

    I’ve been thinking about you guys and just read this devastating news. I know it is a whole month later, but I thought I would just send a quick note that my thoughts and prayers are with you guys! Stay strong and much love.

  226. Allen on January 10, 2009 at 12:45 am

    I am sorry for your loss, devastating. You guys are in our prayers.

  227. Bernadette Briggs on January 10, 2009 at 8:19 am

    hi
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    good luck

  228. Mel McLellan on January 14, 2009 at 2:12 am

    Thank you everybody. Your comments lift our spirits every day.

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